Lol

Could that be??!!

Lol true jay an nenavr

Um just a sec guys because as I recall, good men do the exact same thing and act the same way towards good women. Except there's no fancy lingo attached lol From what I understand, the good girls are never the beautiful ones. And, even the most beautiful good girls are traded in for crazy bad cold mean beautiful women. The good girls are also the "main" girls and good guys find them boring, too clingy, etc etc. Good guys do end up cheating too. No man really wants a good girl until it's time to get married. And, that's because being "good" means putting up with all of him and then some. So, my point is that I believe both sides suffer because they are looking for someone to give them what they dont have or are not. They are looking for an opposite to compliment them. Whether we seek it or not I cant help but believe we will do this unconsciously and then later realize it doesnt work long term.

@JustMeAndYou77: well said but a lil confused here. You mean the opposites will not last??

Opposites are fun lol But if there isnt enough compatibility between them so that they both work towards the success of their relationship despite good or bad situations, no I personally believe it's doomed. For instance, a good guy with a bad woman...great sex and fun interesting times but flops when she gets pregnant and just wants child support payments and he doesnt mind paying but wants more involvement with both her and the child. Or, a good woman with bad man...he's outgoing outspoken outwardly charming and appears dynamic and the ultimate protector, flops when she realizes who's going to protect her from his a** lol

@JustMeAndYou77: oh compatibility! Oh ok. I was scared because I have a thing for tall and extra pounds kinda guys lol

Thank you :-)

Ahhh, LOOL No no, not compatibility based on physical things. lol!! You make me laugh a lot. You're funny! :D I meant based on good girl/bad guy, bad girl/good guy traits. I can never figure out why bad guys and bad girls wont just hook up lmfao

So both sexs do the same thing why? Everyone says they want to b happy yet when your obvisouly not and being abused why go back? Fight back lean on someone who treats you right.

You're very right dustin. I agree with your point. I guess people try sticking to what they know. They trust what they're use to more. Im a lot like that myself. But, safer doesnt always mean better.