Yes atempa I thought about all of this before. Even if it would be ok to still hang out in forums. The thing is, if you start a relationship on suspicion and skepticism rather than on trust it's doomed whether you stay or go build lots of karma or not. It would be an issue if he was also meeting the ladies and also not being open and honest to everybody here about our new relationship. Honesty is what I believe in especially when it comes to relationships. I even am honest about a severely personal physical issue with a guy I am going to be in a relationship with and I can tell ya as a woman, it's not easy.

cool and wow the guys are winin but u atempa u were first on ladies side why men now...lol

lol!!!

I would be ticked off. That would be no assumption he was talking/flirting with others, it would be fact. If he was jus here on frums he wouldnt be gaining karma. Its not a TRUST issue, its a RESPCT issue. I can trust a man not to cheat/flirt but he should respect me enough not to be gaining 10 karma while with me too. jmo

so now u all see dat is not easy 2 trust a guy wit soo much karmas so as wit a lady 2,

There is a flip side to the karma though...some give it out when thier message is responded to politely indicating that you are not interested but thanx anyway. Karma can climb that way too....

Sorry I would trust the guy to be here at dating.mobi as I myself am here and understand the goings-on, until he realistically gave me a reason not to trust him. If I cant trust meeting him here and being with him in a relationship why bother.

Well now with that said, u cant punish her for the karma she gained before meeting u, thats not fair. I have 18 and that means ive been nice to atleast people before dating someone. If i start dating someone then it shouldnt go from 18 to 50....but what i already have shouldnt be held against me as a trust issue as long as i was single while i got it

@atempa: well guys am backin on atempas post, is true coz not all guys or ladies can be trusted, becos even if u trust a guy wit more karma remember he is always havin a reserve lady dat he wil attend to when u dont msg 4 just a day...nd also dont think he is friends wit them only...he just fighting 4 some1

ok i should put my view on this, i like chatting to all my friends and well im gaining karma from that, Shaz knows that i have made lots of friends here, and i treat the site as my second home (i honestly mean that)