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Lesbians (by ShyLittleGirl)

 ShyLittleGirl 
13-Nov-12 3:27 am
Y r ppl so against me bein lesbian? i finally admitted who i am n suddenly all my friends don't wanna b seen wit me in public but swear there's nothin wrong. i cried alot over it but i don't regret who i am. n jus cuz im lesbian doesn't mean i can't still follow god. im jus takin the untraditional path. screw the world imma lesbian n i wont give tht up 4 nethin. i won't hide Agen

 

 

 
 
 Lookin4luvstud (0)    (37 / F-F / Tennessee)
13-Nov-12 3:37 am
In my eyes being who you are and being happy with it is all that matters.i do believe that your friends are acting very childish, but its nothin you should cry over. If they are your real friends they will see you for YOU, and not your sexuality. Please dont let anyone tear your heart away from God, he created us and there is no mistake in how he made you or me or anyone for that matter. Keep your chin up it will get better with time. =)

 

 

 
 
 ShyLittleGirl 
13-Nov-12 3:55 am
@Lookin4luvstud: Thx:) glad ta know Nt every1s a critic. n im 1 of those ppl tht gets my feels hurt very easily n cries more than i should so it really hurts Wen ppl i thot were my friends said they had no clue who i wuz in a theater in front of so many ppl

 

 

 
 
 braindroppings 
13-Nov-12 4:24 am
I am bi and I remember when I came out. I felt so alone and disgusting. A lot of people quit talking to me, my family never spoke about it for years, but now when I talk to people I am not ashamed to say how I feel. You will reach that point. You feel like you are in a very dark place and will never get out, but you will. Just accept yourself. Accept that not everyone is going to accept you and the people who care about you will be there. It isn't easy, but it gets easier with time. Never be ashamed for falling in love with who you fall in love. Stand up and say "This is who I am and I love me". No one can ever take your love for yourself away from you. Loving yourself is the best way to always be happy :) I need to work on it more myself, but one day at a time :)

 

 

 
 
 PaulG7719 
13-Nov-12 4:30 am
yknow........ i have no tolerance for intolerance. people love to point the finger, but most refuse to turn that finger around. i look at it like this: you be who and what you are. dont ever let yourself believe god doesnt love you because youre a lesbian. be happy to be alive because THAT is really all that we have. thats gods gift to us, life. live it your way. love your way. (wish the world saw it my way)

 

 

 
 
 ShyLittleGirl 
13-Nov-12 4:30 am
@braindroppings: Helps more if u have sum1 ta love. im realizin tht there r jus as many girl players as there r guys. think sum1 mite b worthy of Ur love then they crush u n walk over the pieces. most the girls I've met r like tht

 

 

 
 
 ShyLittleGirl 
13-Nov-12 4:34 am
@PaulG7719: Me 2 Mayb i could actually walk down the street without ppl whispering

 

 

 
 
 PaulG7719 
13-Nov-12 4:51 am
@ShyLittleGirl: they do that, and thats sad. im a big fan of mind your own dam business. youre just a person to me. i dont like bein judged and i try not to, except against idiocy. that, im allergic too. i have a saying: i would manage my anger if people would manage thier ****ing stupidity.

 

 

 
 
 ShyLittleGirl 
13-Nov-12 4:56 am
@PaulG7719: Sounds pretty good ta me. i hate stupid ppl who think tht sum1 a lil different needs ta b destroyed

 

 

 
 
 Lookin4luvstud (0)    (37 / F-F / Tennessee)
13-Nov-12 5:22 am
Well living in the bible belt doesnt help your self esteem, i know how it is. For a long time i wouldnt let myself show any pda not even hand holding because people look at a gay couple in tennessee like they might catch the " illness". Im getting over it a lil bit at a time. I look at it this way, I hid myself away from the world for 18 years, trying to be something i was not just to please the people around me, f that i have never been happier. Yeah the first year or two is odd, and sometimes i contemplated just being alone for the rest of my life but it does get better with time. =) Just be the beautiful YOU, and learn to love yourself.

 

 

 
 
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