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Ladies, i need ur advice (by yourladyoflove)

 yourladyoflove 
5-Nov-12 2:45 pm
Ok, im sure im not the only one this has hapnd to. Im a good person and im always nice to those who msg me, but heres the situation: a man gives u his #, tells u to txt him...u reply that u dnt give ur # out but he keeps sendn u msgs w/ his # evryday. he has gud "k" but this is getn really annoying. he hasnt said anything out of the way, he seems to be a decent man...but isnt this being sumwat disrespectful? i dnt wana be rude but idk wat more to do at this point. suggestions? i no ur probly gona tell me bout the "dump button", but thats rather harsh i think, considering this is the only problem ive had with him. im at a loss for the rite words to say to him w/o being a b***h, which btw im almost to that point. plz help

 

 

 
 
 PaulG7719 
5-Nov-12 2:51 pm
in that situation, politely ask him to stop. if he continues..... initiate b**** mode!

 

 

 
 
 sweetkisses1984 (24)    (40 / F-M / Minnesota)
5-Nov-12 2:58 pm
I run into that all the time I tell them that before I give out my number I would like to get to know them better so I start asking them questions and that always seems to work good luck

 

 

 
 
 yourladyoflove 
5-Nov-12 3:02 pm
@PaulG7719: thank u, lmao thats gud advice :D

 

 

 
 
 JtWhite 
5-Nov-12 3:03 pm
And my number is ...lol just kidding! As Paul said,ask him nicely at first and then if that dont work,it will paint a clear picture of how he is and then the most logical thing to do would be to use the dump feature. Yea I know Im not a lady,but I felt compelled to answer.

 

 



Last edited by JtWhite; 5-Nov-12 3:05 pm.
 
 
 yourladyoflove 
5-Nov-12 3:07 pm
@sweetkisses1984: thanx...but i told him this frm the start and he said he understood, but the very next day he started doing this and hasnt stopd yet, ughh

 

 

 
 
 PaulG7719 
5-Nov-12 3:08 pm
@yourladyoflove: lol youre welcome. if he didnt get the message after you spoke up then hes bein too pushy. by definition that is being a creep, regardless of how nice he may portray himself. no means no the first time no matter how nicely you put it.

 

 

 
 
 sweetkisses1984 (24)    (40 / F-M / Minnesota)
5-Nov-12 3:12 pm
Wow I am sorry but like Paul had said ask him nicely and if he still does it give him some negative karma

 

 

 
 
 yourladyoflove 
5-Nov-12 3:12 pm
@JtWhite: thank u, and thats fine that u answered. im hoping that he will see this post and take the hint. i will definitely ask politely, but if it continues im not scared of that lil button, lol

 

 

 
 
 clover04 (10)    (52 / F-M / Texas)
5-Nov-12 3:19 pm
I run into that all the time I tell them that before I give out my number I would like to get to know them better so I start asking them questions and that always seems to work good luck
this works for me... IF THEY CANT RESPECT THAT, then they arent respectful. Enough said. :)

 

 

 
 
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