I am debating on going ahead and leaving the site. My number one problem: I am addicted to the forums. :) As well as addicted to the personalities of some of the people I talk to on the forums. Most of you are just really great. But I am almost getting depressed of reading the word "date". Which makes me laugh at the same time because it is pretty funny when you think about it. Haha. :)

Why dont you just take a break instead of deleting and after awhile come back. Because if you delete and decide to come back everything starts new and you lose karma and your posts.

Yes, I know. I am not tired of any of the site. Just tired of being alone, I think. But so far only one person caught my interest and of course my mind kicked in with a stop light saying "Don't want to have a replay."

Well, in my opinion, it is better to have friends than no one at all. I am single and have been 3 months now. Got great friends behind me so I am not worried bout finding a date really. Also got my 2 sons. :)

The forums are awsome though its fun hearing everybodys take on things an you give some good advice an make valid points at least stay for the forums an people

Oh girl dont go anywhere. Im getting kinda fond of ur post. The forums are addictive for alot of us, rather ur looking for a man or not, jus make friends and spend time with us, share ur experiences and opinions.

Thanks, Brites. :) And I probably will stay. Just been the type of day when doubt has surrounded me. I have been single for a while. Around christmas it will be a year. I was hurt. So I am scared. But when I feel like trying again, I worry over not being good enough. I have wonderful friends on and off here. But I want some one to cuddle with that I can talk to about anything. Is that sappy or what? Haha.

It isn't sappy OP , we are human being and while friends and families are great , no one can fill the void that only that " someone " can fill . :). Every single person goes through with that feelings , scare of the replay yet would like to have someone I cuddle with .

Surely , at the right time you'll meet someone special :)

Good luck girl !

Thank you. :)

Speaking of cuddling, I'm going to bed. Good night yall. Got my SpongeBob pillow to hug. My boys are at their aunt's till tomorrow evening.