Please vote in the poll above.

Lol I'm assuming this is for herpese?

Hi smgangel, it isnt pointing fingers and indicating anything. Ive done a few threads on hygiene and wellness :)

If your with someone an have already been tested theres no need unless one of them is a cheater then they shouldnt be together anyway an catching something would be a bad way to find out youve been cheated on

mk, yall are seriously misunderstanding When I say together, I mean it in a proactive sense. Not in an accusing one. Would you go to be tested together or not together or not tested at all for that matter. This is what I mean....

I've only been with one person my entire life and got tested after I found out she was cheating on me with several guys at once. I was squeeky clean.

I would have no problem being tested together cuz i dnt keep secrets. As for herpes, they can only test u positive if u have an outbreak, so no sense in being tested every month and once u have the virus u cant get rid of it u can only control the outbreaks. With HIV and other diseases u can be tested every 6 months, and it can take 7 yrs to get a positive result.

little known fact: if you have ever had a coldsore you've had herpes. Lol.

k, you do understand what I mean! :D Yes, which makes perfect sense hollabak. It's good to include the level or status of the relationship when considering this I guess. So let me ask you. If you meet a woman who becomes your gf and she says let's get tested together before having sex are you likely to do this? And, then throughout the relationship? Or would you find this suspicious and be skeptical of her?

Well to be honest I have no reason to get tested again, as after I got tested I haven't done anything with anyone. Would gladly show her my records tho and go along with her so she has my full support.