I know i should be happy this,is,free but still. Ive been on here for three months and i only talked to one person. ONE! who lives half the country away from me. Im very dissapointed and dont know if ill remain on here much longer. This site has managed to take something that was supposed to be happy and made it extremely depressing. Im sorry for the complaint but im really frustrated and at my wits end.

And your young, just think of us old folks. Your one more than I.

Hey. Dont let it get to u. Alot of guys dont get replys. U should join in here on the forums and u'll meet lots of people. Keep ur head up and be confident, love will find u

I kno. But i worry. Im a security guard and ive already been fired upon once. My self confidence is low. I was homeschoold and i feel so awkward

@Dslaney92: theres your proble bud stop carring what ppl think of you and just be you otherwise no one will ever know the real you i learned that awhile ago and trust me your confidence will skyrocket of course you're still gonna have some girls who think theyre too good for you and your gonna get turned down but dont worry about it just keep tryin and itll happen when it happens i know the feeling you get after you get shot at an its not fun the thought that that moment coulda been your last sucks but it wasnt your last and now you should live every moment like it is your last

Within 7 minutes of posting in the Forums, you've literally doubled the number of women you've talked to, so there's your answer. :) Just get involved in the Forums, and you'll start meeting a ton of new people, and possibly even "the one".

I have no doubt that this lack of confidence and awkwardness is hurting your chances at the moment, as I'm sure it's coming through in the messages you're sending other women (it's like they have a special detector for sniffing that kind of stuff in men!). So chin up, open up, hang out in the Forums, and that will boost your confidence, reduce your awkwardness, and get you on the right path to finding love. Worst case scenario, you have a great time and make a bunch of new friends. Best case scenario, you find the love of your life. Hope this helps! :)

welcome to the forums. As andres said you posted and got noticed. Just keep posting and keep the ladies noticing you.

Nice profile pic! What girl doesn't love a man in uniform :)

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