All in all...just like there are lazy women there are lazy men, just like there are hardworking women there are hardworking men....stop generalizing.... Stop worrying about "oh this chick is a lazy girl who has 3 kids and has no job" and worry about your own bills. As my mother says "deja de buscar la quinta pata del gato"/" stop looking for the cats 5th leg"

Im srry but girls are not innocent contraceptives have been around for thousands of years u mean to tell me she never heard of a pill, now u say we should take responsibility but once the fetus is formed we have no rights, she can keep it or throw it away at her own discretion becuz"It's Her Body" . But didn't it take two to tango, were losing this battle either way and we know it, the irony is the judge plays victim, btw women manipulate men alot more, just look outside, the way they dress, songs they sing, their behavior in public, hell we can't even claim rape

By losing the battle i mean we no longer have any decision making skills, if we want it, 2 bad, if not, there goes the next sixteen years of ur life

Lol 16?? Well feel lucky, here its 18......AND UMMMM men can claim rape jus as easily as women. lol

My only comment on this whole thing so no one need reply: It's give and take. My mother worked 3 jobs when I was younger and still had to use a form of welfare having my two sisters and I to raise on her own. I moved out into my own place and paid for my own things at 15 to help her. I may not have a baby, but I know it would be much harder. My sister was a single mom. She had to get welfare because she had difficulties after giving birth. These difficulties happend due to how my nephew came to be. She was not on a pill because she had not needed to be untill the night she was taken advantage of. So please be more specific. I understand where the men and women are coming from. I can even respect all of the opinions made. But life isn't a dance. It is a battle. Some people have the guts to fight. Some don't. You have to keep that in mind or all hell breaks loose. Then this happens.

I'm a single mom, mid-twenties raising my daughter my self. I do get her health insurance through the state, but that's all the state funded assistance i get- i work for everything else we have. So not all twenty-something single mothers today sit back and do nothing but get a check. And before you get on me about how i should have waited to be married or haven't i heard of conception, i had bought the stinking condoms! (I couldn't afford the pill- that stuffs expensive and i don't have health insurance) is it really my fault he waited until i was too darned drunk to know what was happening and decided not to use the condom? Or that he would rather sit back and collect welfare than get a job and pay support for any of his six- yes, six!- kids? ( four different moms... ) yes, i have responsibilities in the matter, but i am doing everything i can to give my daughter the best life i can- do not say all young(ish) women in my situation are lazy brats!