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Low self esteem/me needing love (by darren1)

 darren1 
26-Oct-12 5:01 pm
So i have this problem... I feel like no one wants me & sometimes i feel like im ugly.. & i like guys but when i do like em it be the straight guys so i end up feeling alone & i just never had or felt love i just be needing some guy to talk to & be with i want to experience love i ask people whats wrng with me & they jus laugh or something my friend told me ask a gay guy whats wrng plus im slick still in the closet bt if i find the right guy i wud come all the way out

 

 

 
 
 RoseQuartz 
26-Oct-12 5:47 pm
I would recommend 'is it a choice?' i dont remember the author but it's a very good book. Also it might help to talk to someone who cares, and i think i speak for most of 'us' when i say 'we are here when you need a friend . We will listen , understand , and give positive feedback. I hope this helps. And remember you are not alone

 

 

 
 
 JustMeAndYou77 (17)   (47 / F-M / Florida)
27-Oct-12 9:07 am
So i have this problem... I feel like no one wants me & sometimes i feel like im ugly.. & i like guys but when i do like em it be the straight guys so i end up feeling alone & i just never had or felt love i just be needing some guy to talk to & be with i want to experience love i ask people whats wrng with me & they jus laugh or something my friend told me ask a gay guy whats wrng plus im slick still in the closet bt if i find the right guy i wud come all the way out
I agree. You may also want to spend time mingling around gay guys. Start friendship and talk to them about how you're feeling. It doesn't have to be jumping right into sexual situations. That's your call. As you go along though you will eventually decide if it's a right fit for you or not. Until you do this, you will always wonder, get the same feedback and put yourself in danger with straight men. Straight men are straight and are not going to treat you and comfort you as they would a woman, sorry. Be careful.

 

 

 
 
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