Here's the situation : The lady's ultimate desires is to be a mother. She got married to a successful guy who can provides her material wants, a picture of a perfect couple BUT the husband has a secret that he was not upfront prior to the wedding. He has erectile dysfunction. The world of the wife collapsed, dreams of being a mother shattered but the wife made a vow on their marriage. If you are the wife, would you divorce your husband? If you are a husband, would you set free your wife?

@Rainbowbutterfly: you dont leave someone because of a small medical problem. There are other ways for her to get pregnant

@Bbwpoohbear: there's no other ways except for adoption and sperm cell donation but the wife dislike the idea.

@Rainbowbutterfly: the way i see it is you marry for love not for the kids you get out of it . So to me you dont quit just because a small bump in the road . What if it was the woman that couldn't have babies does the man stop loving her because of that i would hope not

@Bbwpoohbear: I understand what you meant but the fact that the husband never revealed his secret will shocked you, also part of marriage is to "make love". If you are married but no intimate moments, no children, where is the essence of marriage?

@Rainbowbutterfly: yes it would be a shock and yes sex does help a marriage but should not be the foundation of said marriage there many ways to have "love" spending time with someone can be more powerful than a tumble in the hay

@Rainbowbutterfly: I dont know that personally I cld get over the the lie and betrayal...but if he had been honest then it wld just be a thing to work around...and sex is not same as intimacy......

Well adoption will be fine

The problem as i see it is the relationship is based on lies you have no foundation kids,sex all the rest is but a symptom of untruth

See that's what happens when people don't communicate. Didn't here anything about the woman's needs being communicated before the marriage either. Sounds like they both had secrets and money ain.t where it's at either. Preconceived notions and hidden agendas ain't part of that 'love and marriage' song