And just cant find the right guy :(.is there a guy out there for me?the tunnel is just getting darker i guess T.T

I been in a few short term relationships in the past 2 yrs so i'm kinda in the same boat... just try ur best to keep searching good men r really hard to find

Oh and there is always light at the end of the tunnel

I am a man and i have been single since nov. 2009 it seems to me most ppl are all about sex or just freaky messed up folks. But we all have to hope that theres a light.

Sweetys ive been single sewven years by choice. I just after christmas decided i was ready. Yes there is a lite at the end of the tunnel. Because i beleive in me. I enjoy whats in front of me and im lonely but not lonely. I wait patiently for what i deserve. To give my heart to that special someone. But get used to waiting because everything that you experince in life makes you better till you meet your perfect match.

It took me well over one year to even think about another relationship partly due to the fact i made a vow and i couldnt love her for the worse but theres Patience is the key i hope

@brats52005: kudos to u i like the way u sound like u love urself... that is so important cause if u can't love urself no one else will. u will find what u dserve definately : )

Patience IS the key, for myself I found a partner once that complemented me perfectly, we had many things in common and many things not, but we had mutual respect and caring for one another. when I lost him I tried to settle for something less, was not worth it. I will wait patiently or do without. Would rather be alone than with the wrong man!

Thank you all that means so much.! Most men use me as a sex toy or they abuse the animals that i rescue and i guess im just scared to let another man in my life.i hate being lonely with noone to talk to but im just to scared to b hurt again

I would wether be alone and happy then with someone and be miserable.