Hi Admin. I'm very sorry that things has got this far . I walked away with disappointment in my heart . I cannot understand why you allowed a member who is rude to the ladies to be active in forums . Thedarkprince11 rudeness isn't acceptable in whatever form . It was not just happen in me , it happened to heikz and some other ladies here .. Why did you allow such member like him ? Why did you allow that we ladies will be abused by him ? I sent you a PM with proof yet the possible action we could do is dump & give him negative karma .. How could you dump a member who is active on the forums? Posting here & there?

Were our claimed wasn't enough to prove you that this person is sick ? Would you like that all ladies here will possibly receive the same messages I forwarded with you ?

Thanks ..

@ReachTheStar: Hi sis . welcome back again first of all :)
i believe you what you say though i'm not aware of all the facts . and if i'm not wrong the said user came back with a different id to beat the ban .
i would humbly request the admin to look into the matter and ban him if he's guilty .

I dealt this matter with admin already and seeing him fooling around with women trying to get rid his negative karma makes me sick !

The only reason I allowed him to stay is because he publicly apologized to everyone and was actually dealing with his issues and making an effort to improve himself. You know me by now, I like to give people second chances, but never a third.

Furthermore, since his public apology, I haven't seen any evidence of him being rude or disrespectful to anyone or of attempting to violate any rule, otherwise he would have been out the door for good. In fact, I've seen him be quite active in the Forums, contributing with new threads and discussions.

I think some of you take for granted the kind of careful thought process that goes on behind-the-scenes here at Dating.mobi. Most other sites don't even moderate their Forums and they're a free-for-all of rudeness and cruelty. We take a different and more personal approach, by being stricter when we need to be, but also lenient when we feel it's deserved and someone is battling with their own demons. Of course, by "we", I mean "me".

There are already tools to deal with rude and disrespectful individuals via Private Messages, while I handle the offending posts in the Forums. You cannot expect a one-man team to sift through hundreds of thousands of Private Message to find problematic users. That is precisely why I introduced the Karma System, and it's why we've had the Dump button there since the beginning.

You don't have to agree with every decision we (I) make, but at least understand that there is a very careful thought process that goes behind every single one of those decisions.

I will not, however, let that conscientious decision-making process be tainted by threats of members leaving. Of course, I listen to all member feedback attentively, particularly when it comes from many voices, and I try my best to give everyone a safe, friendly, and respectful community to increase their chances of finding love as much as possible.

That's about all I can do.

Iam here for a quite a while now, and iam to the point were i couldnt take no more like Mera said we are not the only two he was been rude and unrespectfull to ! Iam sorry it had to come to this but i will not apologize and i will stand by every word i said! And iam 100 % behind my friends Mera, Brats and Epril !

Has he been rude or disrespectful since his public apology 2 days ago?

Admin , that guy is asking nude pic to members here ???? He likes to befriended with them then got rude with you say NO .. It was not only happened to me .. To other ladies !!! How many proofs do you need ? How many kinds of violations does he needs to commit before you understand that he is here not to look for love but to hurt women ?

*A quote from one lady :


Epril (10)***(19 / F-MF / Hogwarts)
Today 6:02 pm
i wouldnt mind too taking a dunce^! U askd me a full body pic,last tym!

Has this happened since his public apology 2 days ago? I don't see any evidence of it.

10. *brats[Warning: Posting of Contact Info is not allowed. Please follow the rules.])****(41 / F-M / California)
Today 5:38 pm
Quoted Post:
Hate is when i see a person like you still on the forums, after u called my friend Rainbow a fu..cki..ng chinged eyed Bi...tch and to go fu...ck herself in a private message on here! She never done anything but be nice to you ! All she did is believe me over you that day! She is gone and you are still here spreading Your lies! Thats what hate feels like, i can feel it as iam writing this down, iam ready to be banned with a Dunce^ i dont care it needed to be said i feel better already!
I am with you still crying over my little rainbow butterfly. I will take a dunce too thanks for writing me and taking my karma one or two karma for the right thing you beleive in doesnt hurt it was mainly for the pervs.
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