Thread: Just outta curosity

Just outta curosity (by Briteeyes)

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Briteeyes
31-Jan-13 6:45 am

Yep yep :-)

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JustMeAndYou77 (17)

(47 / F-M / Florida)
31-Jan-13 7:04 am

Quoted Post:

If u liked someone and u had friends that knew u liked them and gave u

Hey girl, I think I kinda know where you're going with this. To answer your initial question, yes. If a woman is your friend and she gets into a relationship (bf/gf or marriage) with someone she knows you're interested in and you have shared your interests with her then it's betrayal. However, please do not get it mixed up with just friendships. I can get pretty jealous over a love interest too but being respectful friends with other women around my man is one thing. We all can be friends. Him flirting or the friend flirting with each other and landing in a relationship is different. If you're not in a relationship with the guy...only interested and the friend is more of an aquaintance than close friend to me it's fair game. I would tone down the jealousy in this instance.

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Briteeyes
31-Jan-13 7:07 am

@JustMeAndYou77: no girl that's not the situation in this case.

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brats52005 (52)

(54 / F-M / California)
31-Jan-13 7:53 am

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@Briteeyes: well yeah if you encouraged me then went behind my back and started a relationship with him without bein upfront about it that would be dishonest and trifling, but if I were gullible enough to believe we were exclusive when he didnt want me to ask you about yall or come out on forums w our relationship then I guess it would be one less friend and one less Playa in my life but take it all as a lesson and try to do things differently next time around:)

I agree with you sammy.

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brats52005 (52)

(54 / F-M / California)
31-Jan-13 7:58 am

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Not an honest friend so not worth making the same mistake of trusting her again and Guy was obviously dishonest-so before fallin so hard next time be a lil more cautious-I know I am:)

Amen.

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brats52005 (52)

(54 / F-M / California)
31-Jan-13 8:00 am

Quoted Post:

If u liked someone and u had friends that knew u liked them and gave u

Hey girl, I think I kinda know where you're going with this. To answer your initial question, yes. If a woman is your friend and she gets into a relationship (bf/gf or marriage) with someone she knows you're interested in and you have shared your interests with her then it's betrayal. However, please do not get it mixed up with just friendships. I can get pretty jealous over a love interest too but being respectful friends with other women around my man is one thing. We all can be friends. Him flirting or the friend flirting with each other and landing in a relationship is different. If you're not in a relationship with the guy...only interested and the friend is more of an aquaintance than close friend to me it's fair game. I would tone down the jealousy in this instance.

very well said. very true.

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heikeva (69)

(60 / F-M / Bayern)
31-Jan-13 1:51 pm

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I think if u trust someone rather virtual or real life, then that trust shouldn't be broken period. Shows they aren't a good friend or a good person with morals or character.

exactly!

Very true, i agree...

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Nzsweetie24 (4)

(36 / F-M / New Zealand)
31-Jan-13 2:41 pm

Betrayal is betrayal, but it does take two to tango as they say, so the blame isnt just on the friend but also the one who was liked. Especially, if said person was just playing the field and doesnt truly care for either friend.

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