Ooohh...got it. Yes, many men are jerks here too. He was giving you a line ( a story). I don't blame you for not trusting that.
And this has happened many times? And they are American men ? Or all English speaking men? ... I would not waste my one week vacation either.

@Zilya777: well anyone who want to have a visa u will need to passd in the hole of sewing needle,lol!!!

so you're saying that if someone offers you a visa with a new life, you wouldn't take it?

@takenbytom: Hhhaa.. Yes. Not likely that " a camel can fit thru the eye of a needle " or likely to get a visa. :-)
If a man, really wants to be with a woman he will move heaven & Earth. Not ask you to come and use your 1 week vacation. That is selfish & shaddy & scarey.

@xlacey75x: well he offerng me to stay for gud but i said one week only,..i dnt want to stay for one place then at the end i blame myself and not happy,it. depends for me,

@takenbytom: Please make sure, you can stay in a separate place from him, & that your passport ,Visa, travelers checks are safe.. And not where he can take anything from you.

If you decide to do this.

@Zilya777: honestly we settld the month already,...i can take the risk coz well i like him too,..but unfortunately in the end were split already..

@takenbytom: Probably, not meant to be. And he can come to you. Especially the first few times. :-) And meet somewhere else, not where you live.If he made the trip he can get a hotel ..

i suggeSt that bfore but he told me he have the fears to fly,.tnx mss.zee for the advce i lessen my fav.lol

Guess ppl can't read, or read english