NiceGirlBack, thank you so much for sharing your story with us. It's easy to judge someone from that single place that life puts us in. But it takes real courage and experience to be able to make decisions that gets us out. I am also going through a similar situation so I appreciate your post very much.

@JustMeAndYou77: You can always pm me, Its not an easy situation it takes alot of willing and to be strong within yourself to disconnect from someone who you gave into ..

To the lovely kind lady’s thank use for the replys :) I could call him bad names but then id be banned lol :) so in a nicely way to put him hes a “ beepn dork ” ..

How do we pm here? Im still new girl lol I usually send messages from my box. But Im now seeing posts about pming. How does that work? Sure, I would love that. The situation is not as complicated but it's also pretty deep with this person. Im afraid because it's also dark and Im drawn to it. I am trying my damnest to get out and that's why I came here. Im sorry if I'm not making sense right now. The situation just isn't sensible but yes we'll chat. Thank you.:))

@JustMeAndYou77: PM means Private Message

Go to a person's profile whom you like to PM and hit " Send Message " button :) ..

I'm sorry girl , you are in a complicated situation . I hope & pray , everything will be sorted out soon . You are strong - willed & smart lady hence you will come up a brilliant decision ..

Good luck :)

Ahh! Thanks a lot Rainbowbutterfly. I see. Girl, that's my problem right there hehe Im strong-willed and do know clearly what is going on which is why although it's definitely not a good situation it's why I have been sinking deeper into it. Sometimes, I just want to feel vulnerable, submissive, and possessed-in a loving way of course. The relationship has not been one that's just for me which is driving me crazy but it's not exactly a mistress situation. Like with NiceLadyBack, I could never destroy a marriage by helping a husband to cheat on his wife. I want to be married one day as well and wouldn't want it to happen to me.

Glad to hear with that girl .

I condemn mistress ( if they have full knowledge of the man's marital status prior to Relatonship ) . My aunt died as young as 22 , she ended his life after she found out her husband had a mistress ( now an evil wife ) and they have 2 children :(..

Find a positive way to get out from that relationship if it's unhealthy & suffocating girl :) you can do that !! Use your positive goals to pull you up from that situation ...