Honey, you have only been here a month.. Give it time. It is not going to happen instantly.

And you need to remember YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL, STRONG, INDEPENDENT WOMAN!! Don't let anyone tell you different! Being a single mother makes you all the more valuable...

You stated one of the most important things in this world to live for and love unconditionally.... You're beautiful daughter. She needs you and loves and always will.

I was told when i was 14 i would not have kids cause i had cancer now 8 year survivor she is almost one

Ok do me a favor what ever u told ur self 2day ....look in the mirror and reverse what u told urself and say the opposite! Iam not fat iam not worthless or ugly....and from now on i will think positive about myself! ;)

What a great testimony! You are truly a survivor.

Omg i got a message from a great guy saying he wants to get to know me better made me smile

Let me tell ya somethin.i have been depressed many times in my life as far as love.i use to feel bad about myself because i lost some of my hearing and i had a hysterectomy 10 yrs ago.that shook my confidence for a long time.when i get of giving up i step back take a breath and think tomorrow is a better day.it cant get any worse.look at it like this if someone dont want ya for whatever reason than they arent for you.laugh at life and stop searchin for love cause it will find you.ive been dating like 11 yrs now with no serious relationships.when no one is there to pick you up.you stand tall and keep going.ever seen the video by reba and brooks and dunn? Cowgirls dont cry.that was my life to a t.but i stopped lookin for love and it has found me but if i lost it i will keep singing cowgirls dont cry.

@funnygirl1: What a story u have i can relate 2 most of what u said ! Power to us women ! Flower Power....Peace Out... Amen Sisters! ;)

I know exactly how you feel hun. I stay depressed and lonely.

Amen @ funnygirl and heikeva I can also relate to some of this so Amen.