what?

@OneWitWonder: The lady I'm asking this question about is married but not living with her husband. Her husband and a guy I have talked to are on the same phone account...room mates. So when she gets her husbands report she will also get the other guys report too. So she will be able to tell me if he's cheating...texting etc. But I don't know if that's deceitful on my part to be spying although its not me doing it. I told him it was being done

So your new beau lives with a man and his wife and and ur man and the couple are all on same phone account. She suspects her husband of cheating so she is getting a 'report' from the carrier listing all calls and websites visited on all the phones? So you are asking if you should view the report to check on your man? And you told your man that she is spying on her husband but not that u might spy on him?

@Briteeyes: so if he is talking to another person is that cheating? If it were me Id simply ask and see the response I get. Being sneeky like that sorta falls in the category of "two wrongs dont make a right" imo. . But thats assuming she isnt just simply looking for grounds for divorce.

@OneWitWonder: All was correct except the last line...I told my guy that both them was being spied on. He hesitated for a second and then said "I'm not worried, I have nothing to hide, but don't like her bringing us into their s*it"

I think there are good reasons for a wife or gf to go through a husbands or bf phone but she should be upfront about it. if the guy has nothing to hide than there is no reason for him to worry.

she's been told by friends he's cheating...she's asked him and he denies it

then you aren't spying and if you need to look then look....then y'all can work on whatever issue led to your mistrust....imo anyhow

My cousins wife went into his computer and found out he was gay. LMFAO. I thought she knew. Everybody else did. I thought she was lesbian and they got married for appearance sake. LMAO some more! They were married fifteen years! She is a smart lady but very naive I guess. But she had the last laugh. She's a lawyer..took everything he had. LMAO some more.

@Briteeyes: so assuming that the record comes back clean, does she search futher. . And see if he has a second phone that she doesnt know about? Or heck, she can always call Cheaters. . I love that show.