wtf?!? If I announce that I am gonna screw someone else like I was announcing that I had to take a sh!t, then its NOT cheating? Huh?

I think its meant like. If you break off the relationship then its not cheating

@JLaDawn: ikr! Cause its still cheating in my book.

U announce it more seriousely.

If u say so....cheating is cheating in my books...no matter what color ribbon you wrap it up in!

If its not secret its not cheating

yet the heart wants what the heart wants. apparently thats more than enough reason to hurt someone, cheating or not. so because your heart wants this other chick, you can hurt the one you were with. BUT!!! if she did it to you than shes 8 kinds of wh0re? and vice versa? my heart wants to choke my exs...... so should i? because that little phrase says its ok as long as my heart wants it.

If your still officially in the relationship it IS cheating

You dont REALLY want 2 choke her

and because youre heart is more important, the one you crush is left holding the shattered pieces of his or her life, simply because YOUR heart is more important. you think they should just get over it because you dont want them, even though you say things like "i love you" "we'll always be together" "what would i do without you" and all that other crap. but your heart wants what your heart wants right? all that sh!t goes out the window. you demolish that person and justify it with a bullsh!t phrase.