I would have a friend call them and ask them if they like me while I'm in the room, WHEN I WAS 12!

I have been wondering about this my entire life but never was as comfortable in expressing it as clearly and straight as this in words so thank you for polling and giving options. It really made me rethink this. I chose pay attention... I wanted to pair it with just say it flat out. mk, I always ask. That's the type of person I am. I like clarity. Id say things like, do you like me? How? In what way? What are you looking for? Why? and so on And, I will share what I am looking for etc. with him directly. Problem with this is, scumbags are not going to be honest lol Hanging on to their every good sounding word alone is like shutting off every thought and emotion and becoming a human vegetable. I also believe actions speak louder. Whether I put up with it or not, I cant play the victim to what is actually going on because it cant get any rawer than that. If a guy tells me he likes me and his cell rings and it's another woman and he's like, I love you beautiful. Oh my bad, it's my friend duhhh lol

@JustMeAndYou77: this is why you and i get along sweetie. were both direct and to the point. ask a question and we'll tell you the truth no matter what. we dont care what others think about us either. im glad to have you as a friend. youre awesome girl!

Yes, this is true Paul! Thank you.... I often get clobbered here because Im open about a lot of things and there are people who constantly try to use them back against me but I have to be true to myself. Im not afraid of that. I do care about others and try to check myself at the door but I also care about myself. Im glad we met here and have become great friends :) oooo and, thanks for texting with me about that situation. It's good to get real life perspectives from a guy. Im a lady and thinking and emotion can be different. Actually, it's a damn walk on the wild side rofl

That is why I made the poll. It's easier to look at with all the options side by side. Lol. As for me, I would either ask or watch for a bit then ask. Don't really know. Don't really care. :D I'm a "I will know what to do when I need to do it." type.

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@Joshua198923: you arent the only Cherokee here brothe. Lol knowing your ancestry is good thouugh. On topic though i say just tell em. Its what i do