Thread: Would You Be Tested Often And Together?

Would You Be Tested Often And Together? (by JustMeAndYou77)

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JustMeAndYou77 (17)

(47 / F-M / Florida)
1-Nov-12 9:39 pm

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I would have no problem being tested together cuz i dnt keep secrets. As for herpes, they can only test u positive if u have an outbreak, so no sense in being tested every month and once u have the virus u cant get rid of it u can only control the outbreaks. With HIV and other diseases u can be tested every 6 months, and it can take 7 yrs to get a positive result.

Ahh, thank you, thank you! Yes you guys are on point with this. These are the kinds of posts I was looking to share with everyone! Sinnes came very close also. Im talking more on the lines of deciding to begin a serious relationship and have sex and if testing and providing the reports should be a normal part of a relationship or not.

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Briteeyes
1-Nov-12 9:47 pm

Yes i think being tested should be considered when beginning a long term relationship, unless like in hollabak's case and u havent been with anyone....but even then id still consider wanting a test dne jus for my own knowledge to ease my mind. U can never be to careful and whats it gonna hurt u know :)

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JustMeAndYou77 (17)

(47 / F-M / Florida)
1-Nov-12 9:51 pm

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Well to be honest I have no reason to get tested again, as after I got tested I haven't done anything with anyone. Would gladly show her my records tho and go along with her so she has my full support.

ahhhh.... I see. Wow, that's great that you wouldnt be offended or take it the wrong way if ever asked. I wouldnt either. I'd would think weirdly about it only if a guy jumps up out of nowhere and is like come on baby, let's go get tested lol

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JustMeAndYou77 (17)

(47 / F-M / Florida)
1-Nov-12 9:55 pm

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Yes i think being tested should be considered when beginning a long term relationship, unless like in hollabak's case and u havent been with anyone....but even then id still consider wanting a test dne jus for my own knowledge to ease my mind. U can never be to careful and whats it gonna hurt u know :)

True! And can yall believe someone actually chose the last option? How nice....smh lol

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hollabak89
1-Nov-12 10:03 pm

@justme: We all know someone has to be outright rude about stuff.

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xSinneDx (21)

(43 / M-F / Arizona)
1-Nov-12 10:14 pm

@JustMeAndYou77: thats what i meant by my post being tested at first then from there on out no reason to

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yourladyoflove
1-Nov-12 10:20 pm

I wud def want a test done before engaging in a sexual relationship with sum1. In order for both parties to feel secure, this most def shud be done together. If u no where uve been and hv nothing to hide, its not a big deal. For those not willing to go with me and be tested with me the same day and time....i got a curb u can go stand on!

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JustMeAndYou77 (17)

(47 / F-M / Florida)
1-Nov-12 10:20 pm

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@justme: We all know someone has to be outright rude about stuff.

ya lol always.

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yourladyoflove
1-Nov-12 10:26 pm

About the every month testing together...absolutely wud do that too, cuz jus bcuz neither of u testd pos b4, duznt mean u gona test neg next month...so thats a no brainer really!

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JustMeAndYou77 (17)

(47 / F-M / Florida)
1-Nov-12 10:28 pm

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@JustMeAndYou77: thats what i meant by my post being tested at first then from there on out no reason to

Yes, I did get you! Just did not want it to seem I meant only in a case of infidelity so I wanted to be sure I was clear about the topic. More of a proactive thing as well as based on infidelity.

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