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I [28m] can’t have children. My girlfriend [25f] of three years is pregnant. What do I do? (by Sparky)
I [28m] can’t have children. My girlfriend [25f] of three years is pregnant. What do I do?
My girlfriend and I have been trying for a child for 12 months with no success. Finally, she became pregnant and we were over the moon. We both wanted two children. So i decided to go to the doctors to get my fertility checked. I thought I might of had a low sperm count. I told my girlfriend that I’d be going doctors to check my fertility.
Test results come back and I’m non-fertile. I can’t have children. I have no sperm in my ejaculation. I have low levels of hormones in the pituitary gland.
Well, that means I have not fathered the baby. I asked the medical doctor if there’s anyway I could ever get someone pregnant, he said no.
So I’m really shocked and just at a loss. She must have cheated on me so now I don’t know what to do. I’m thinking about leaving her without a discussion because it’s not like I’ll be leaving MY baby behind. As it wasn’t me who got her pregnant..
I’m sad that I’m infertile and knowing I’d never be able to father a biological child upsets me to no end. But I could have adopted or got some help like Artificial Insemination by donor for my girlfriend. But shes gone and cheated.
TLDR. :: girlfriend cheated on me because she’s pregnant but I’m infertile. Do I just leave?
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My girlfriend and I have been trying for a child for 12 months with no success. Finally, she became pregnant and we were over the moon. We both wanted two children. So i decided to go to the doctors to get my fertility checked. I thought I might of had a low sperm count. I told my girlfriend that I’d be going doctors to check my fertility.
Test results come back and I’m non-fertile. I can’t have children. I have no sperm in my ejaculation. I have low levels of hormones in the pituitary gland.
Well, that means I have not fathered the baby. I asked the medical doctor if there’s anyway I could ever get someone pregnant, he said no.
So I’m really shocked and just at a loss. She must have cheated on me so now I don’t know what to do. I’m thinking about leaving her without a discussion because it’s not like I’ll be leaving MY baby behind. As it wasn’t me who got her pregnant..
I’m sad that I’m infertile and knowing I’d never be able to father a biological child upsets me to no end. But I could have adopted or got some help like Artificial Insemination by donor for my girlfriend. But shes gone and cheated.
TLDR. :: girlfriend cheated on me because she’s pregnant but I’m infertile. Do I just leave?
Source.
Geez....you nights had one in the barrel, you know.
It's simple, DNA test after the baby is born....but it's gonna be hell explaining that to the missus lol
It's simple, DNA test after the baby is born....but it's gonna be hell explaining that to the missus lol
Lots of times men and women think they cant have children, but bammm, end up pregnant. It happens all the time.
My mom was told she'd never be able to conceive naturally by a doctor... when she was in after having just given birth to her second child... and two years later bam there I was
Her chances of getting pregnant were 1 in a million
Her chances of getting pregnant were 1 in a million
@megsy89: But we already knew you are one in a million Meg
@BigPapaRedneck: I mean technically I'm 3 in 3mil since I came third lol
@BigPapaRedneck: actually I'm 2 in a million, my twin just didn't develop fully (true story)
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