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The way I wrote the question & answers is kinda confusing! :-\

No way.
If I don't like the person, I can't see that the sex would be any good.

I have. It didn't end well

No

No, That would defeat the muti orgasms

@sweetnspice: I havent,, even if the sex is good,, thats only the physical aspect of a relationship. You need the emotional and mental aspect as well, because eventually the physical part will get old. There is always someone out there that can perform better sexually or do different things sexually so of course you need more than just the sex!!!

I agree!!

Nowadays in this culture and era,, 95% of people put emphasis on the exterior of someone as opposed to the interior. They have to realize that everything that looks good isnt good. Thats also why many relationships dont last,, first impression is the physical which of course is human nature,, or sexual which makes things worse because you cant/ shouldnt, have a relationship based on either of those aspects because thats not a relationship,,, thats a fling !!!!!

There have been many discussions about the importance of looks and sexual attraction on this site. I still stand firmly that both of those things are partially important. And if all a person is looking for is a fling...they're really important. But, you're right those two things don't establish longevity.

I agree with you to a certain extent. I think they may be somewhat important,,, but in a serious, deeply committed relationship thats based soley on pure love,, those 2 elements have little bearing. When you truly love someone, you look past the sex or the exterior. Its the interior that builds and strengthens relationships. When you have true real love based purely on the heart,, everything else is kind of a fringe benefit.