Why do most girls have to play head games with nice honest loyal guys? Always happens to me hopefully I find the right one soon

@jjrodriguez: ok bro beIng straight up an honestand this may not even help you but to be honest with you it only can get to you as much as you allow it, yes some girls play games and try to get in your head what guys do the same thing sometimes the people playing the game are only really doing it because somebody else did it to Them, others do it sometimes just for the thrill of the hunt they don't really want the relationship what they want to know that they have the ability to go out and get something from somebody if they really wanted toI have found one of the easiest defense is this whole thing honestly it just being cool with who you are and not being in a rush to have somebody by your side take your time slow down I know that doesn't sound like the best advice and it may even be a little cliche but if your not happy with yourself who else is going to be and the people who do play games can since weakness and low self esteem the best way to find somebody you're happy and proud to be with it's become happy and proud of yourself all the rest of it works out in the end not that it's always A bed of roses and sometimes it'll get lonely but it's the road we all have to travel
as an afterthought I would also say that some people will play games just to see if you will let them once you put it in to that they will have more respect for you and in some cases actually want you more than they may have ever wanted you in the past some people just want to see if they're going to be able to push you around or whether you're going to push back and not allow them to walk all over you and in many respects that's one hell of a turn on for some women and men

Ppl dont want to get to know each other, just want to junp into something blindfolded and even when you think you might know that person and you make a move its not always the smartest thing to do...it does take time, alot of time and patience...ive you find someone and all they want to do it play games backoff cause you know it wont end pretty...i tricked myself into thinking someone was right for me, i thought i knew him and what i was getting into and i wouldnt listen to no one and i was fooled.....you got to find someone that really truely wants the samething you do and go from there

@xlace75x: AMEN

@hispeedrodeo: got that rite

@Sunflower69: I probably got a little long winded but I'm feeling really Open today and didn't want to cut it short and leave out something I thought was important

@hispeedrodeo: thank you, ill step down from my soapbox now lol

@hispeedrodeo: being opened n honest is the best way 2 b.this is what i tell a guy.if u let a woman know that she can walk all over u or pusg u around than she going 2 do it and in tha long run she isnt going 2 want 2 b wit u cuz in her eyes ur a puss

@Sunflower69: yep, it is a fine line to walk between expecting respect and being an ass but its not hard if you respect yourself I think some people just want to be in a relationship so bad they don't care what they have to do even to themselves to make that possible

@hispeedrodeo: a woman dont want a asswhole and they also dont want a puss.us woman want a between man one who takes charge