If you met someone here that you really connected to-nearly to the point of potential love-would you move to where they are and start a life with them?

Yes

@JtWhite: No. Not moving to a 'near to potential love' relationship. I'd wait till it becomes 'love', to take such a huge leap. And 'where' would have to be decided after a healthy discussion too. Jmo:-)

yes

Once we met and decided it was what we both wanted i would, but i wouldnt go to Cali or anything

If I truly loved him and he truly loved me, yes. I would move to where ever he was. I love my family, but one cannot put their own life on hold. Plus that would hurt them more to know they were why I didn't follow my heart.

Yes i will no matter how far he is:

potential...no. but after meeting and visits bk n forth with good quality time together...if that turned into love then we wud need to discuss who shud move based on career, kids, etc. and this being based on the fact that marriage is definitely forthcoming soon!

I wouldnt move to a frickin war zone or anything-but then again that can be in Ohio for all I know! Id have to do a lot of soul searching and a lot of planning and of course get the blessing of the cold and ruthless bee otch I married when I was young and stupid.

First I'd have to weigh if it is what's best for my 2 kids or not and go from there.